Post by Enter Nations on Jul 25, 2018 11:47:31 GMT
It's been two years since my husband passed; when is the right time to move on?
Can you please advise me on what to do? I am really confused. I don’t want to make a lifetime mistake.
I am a widow of two years with four kids
I am in a relationship of 6 months with a man 25 years older than I am. He's been married before, divorced but has remarried and has been with his second wife for 10 years now.
He is really serious about marrying me and he told his wife about me. His wife supports the marriage. He has met my people already for paying of dowry but I insisted that he should not rush me into marriage, based on our African belief of a widow staying back for the late husband. He is not happy with this hesitation on my part.
He loves my kids so much. He can’t do without them. My late husband’s family doesn’t contribute to the upkeep of the kids, but he takes up the responsibility as if they were his.
Can you please advise me on what to do? I am really confused. I don’t want to make a lifetime mistake.
Can you please advise me on what to do? I am really confused. I don’t want to make a lifetime mistake.
I am a widow of two years with four kids
I am in a relationship of 6 months with a man 25 years older than I am. He's been married before, divorced but has remarried and has been with his second wife for 10 years now.
He is really serious about marrying me and he told his wife about me. His wife supports the marriage. He has met my people already for paying of dowry but I insisted that he should not rush me into marriage, based on our African belief of a widow staying back for the late husband. He is not happy with this hesitation on my part.
He loves my kids so much. He can’t do without them. My late husband’s family doesn’t contribute to the upkeep of the kids, but he takes up the responsibility as if they were his.
Can you please advise me on what to do? I am really confused. I don’t want to make a lifetime mistake.
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